July 5, 2015 - Sunday in Carthage

This has been a very long and very full day for two senior missionaries here in Carthage!  We got started early this morning, on this Fast Sunday, after our morning prayers and devotional.  We left for Nauvoo and our Sunday meetings at 7:10am after I got the Visitors center in the full cooling mode by turning on the fans and the music systems.  We expect a warmer day today and I wanted to get things nice and cool for our 12:30pm opening.

We had our Fast and testimony meeting and I could not help but think about our last Fast and Testimony meeting where Zac invited me to go to the stand with him so that he could share his testimony.  I still consider that one of the sweetest moments in my life!  Thank you Zac!

After the Sacrament Meeting we had Priesthood and Relief Society Meetings.  This was adjusted so that we could have a special mission administrative meeting where we were taught about the unique message we have received, as a Church, from the Council of the First Presidency and the Council of the Twelve Apostles.  Here is the memo and direction we received this morning:

THE CHURCH OF JESUS CHRIST OF LATTER-DAY SAINTS OFFICE OF THE FIRST PRESIDENCY 47 EAST SOUTH TEMPLE STREET, SALT LAKE CITY, UTAH 84150-1200 June 29, 2015 TO: General Authorities; General Auxiliary Presidencies; and the following leaders in the United States and Canada: Area Seventies; Temple, Stake Mission and District Presidencies; Bishops and Branch Presidents
Dear Brethren and Sisters:
Enclosed is a statement by the Council of the First Presidency and Quorum of the Twelve in response to the recent Supreme Court decision legalizing same-sex marriage in the United States. The statement also pertains to the situation in Canada. Local leaders are asked to meet with all adults, young men, and young women on either July 5 or July 12 in a setting other than sacrament meeting and read to them the entire statement.
Also included is background material which may be helpful in answering questions that arise.
Stake presidents are asked to see that bishops receive copies of this letter and the enclosures.

Sincerely yours,

Thomas S. Monson

Henry B. Eyring

Dieter F. Uchtdorf

 
RESPONSE TO THE SUPREME COURT DECISION LEGALIZING SAME‐SEX MARRIAGE IN THE UNITED STATES June 29, 2015   Because of the recent decision of the United States Supreme Court and similar legal proceedings and legislative actions in a number of countries that have given civil recognition to same‐sex marriage relationships, the Council of the First Presidency and the Quorum of the Twelve Apostles of The Church of Jesus Christ of Latter‐day Saints restates and reaffirms the doctrinal foundation of Church teachings on morality, marriage, and the family. As we do, we encourage all to consider these teachings in the context of the Plan of Salvation and our Heavenly Father’s purposes in creating the earth and providing for our mortal birth and experience here as His children.
Marriage between a man and a woman was instituted by God and is central to His plan for His children and for the well‐being of society. “God created man in his own image, in the image of God created he him; male and female created he them. And God blessed them, and God said unto them, Be fruitful, and multiply, and replenish the earth” (Genesis 1:27‐28). “Therefore shall a man leave his father and his mother, and shall cleave unto his wife: and they shall be one flesh” (Genesis 2:24). Strong families, guided by a loving mother and father, serve as the fundamental institution for nurturing children, instilling faith, and transmitting to future generations the moral strengths and values that are important to civilization and vital to eternal salvation.
A family built on marriage of a man and a woman is the best setting for God’s plan of happiness to thrive. That is why communities and nations generally have encouraged and protected marriage between a man and a woman, and the family that results from their union, as privileged institutions. Sexual relations outside of such a marriage are contrary to the laws of God pertaining to morality.
Changes in the civil law do not, indeed cannot, change the moral law that God has established. God expects us to uphold and keep His commandments regardless of divergent opinions or trends in society. His law of chastity is clear: sexual relations are proper only between a man and a woman who are legally and lawfully wedded as husband and wife. We invite all to review and understand the doctrine contained in “The Family: A Proclamation to the World.”
Consistent with our fundamental beliefs, Church officers will not employ their ecclesiastical authority to perform marriages between two people of the same sex, and the Church does not permit its meetinghouses or other properties to be used for ceremonies, receptions, or other activities associated with same‐sex marriages. Nevertheless, all visitors are welcome to our chapels and premises so long as they respect our standards of conduct while there.
The gospel of Jesus Christ teaches us to love and treat all people with kindness and civility—even when we disagree. We affirm that those who avail themselves of laws or court rulings authorizing same‐sex marriage should not be treated disrespectfully. Indeed, the Church has advocated for rights of same‐sex couples in matters of hospitalization and medical care, fair housing and employment, and probate, so long as these do not infringe on the integrity of the traditional family or the constitutional rights of churches.
The Church insists on its leaders’ and members’ right to express and advocate religious convictions on marriage, family, and morality free from retaliation or retribution. The Church is also entitled to maintain its standards of moral conduct and good standing for members.
As members of the Church, we are responsible to teach the gospel of Jesus Christ and to illuminate the great blessings that flow from heeding God’s commandments as well as the inevitable consequences of ignoring them. We invite all to pray that people everywhere will have their hearts softened to the truths God established in the beginning, and that wisdom will be granted to those who are called upon to decide issues critical to society’s future.

THE COUNCIL OF

THE FIRST PRESIDENCY AND

QUORUM OF THE TWELVE APOSTLES

OF THE CHURCH OF JESUS CHRIST OF LATTER‐DAY SAINTS

 
Background Material for Bishops and Branch Presidents On the U.S. Supreme Court Decision on Same‐sex Marriage The Church has provided a statement dated June 29, 2015, prepared by the Council of the First Presidency and Quorum of the Twelve Apostles regarding the U.S. Supreme Court’s decision legalizing same‐sex marriage in the United States. The response reaffirms the divinely‐revealed reasons and proper doctrinal context for the Church’s unequivocal position regarding matters of morality, chastity, marriage, and the family. As the response notes, the Church’s teachings on these subjects are grounded in the scriptural declarations of God’s eternal plan for the salvation and exaltation of His children and are framed in “The Family: A Proclamation to the World.” While the statement stands on its own, below is additional information that may be helpful to you in responding to questions that may arise.
For much of human history, civil laws have generally been compatible with God’s laws. Unfortunately, there have been notable exceptions to that pattern. For example, it is legal in the United States to perform an abortion on an unborn fetus. However, this practice is not morally acceptable before God. (See Handbook 1, 17.3). The consumption of alcohol, while contrary to God’s law, is legal in most nations of the world, but the physical and social toll for doing so is a painful matter of record. So, too, with issues of unchaste sexual behavior, whether it be heterosexual or homosexual in its orientation. As the First Presidency has previously said and as this current response affirms, “Changes in the civil law do not, indeed cannot, change the moral law that God has established. God expects us to uphold and keep His commandments regardless of divergent opinions or trends in society” (First Presidency letter on “Same‐ Sex Marriage,” January 9, 2014).
What is the Church’s Policy on Homosexual Relations?
“Homosexual behavior violates the commandments of God, is contrary to the purposes of human sexuality, and deprives people of the blessings that can be found in family life and in the saving ordinances of the gospel. Those who persist in such behavior or who influence others to do so are subject to Church discipline. Homosexual behavior can be forgiven through sincere repentance. “If members engage in homosexual behavior, Church leaders should help them have a clear understanding of faith in Jesus Christ, the process of repentance, and the purpose of life on earth.
“While opposing homosexual behavior, the Church reaches out with understanding and respect to individuals who are attracted to those of the same gender. “If members feel same‐gender attraction but do not engage in any homosexual behavior, leaders should support and encourage them in their resolve to live the law of chastity and to control unrighteous thoughts. These members may receive Church callings. If they are worthy and qualified in every other way, they may also hold temple recommends and receive temple ordinances” (Handbook 2, 21.4.6).
Does the authorization of same‐sex marriage affect my right to religious freedom?
Our individual right to religious freedom is protected by the First Amendment to the United States’ Constitution and by the Canadian Charter of Rights and Freedoms. As we exercise that right, we must also exercise tolerance and respect toward others’ rights but do so without condoning behavior that goes contrary to the laws of God. “While we strive for the virtue of tolerance, other commendable qualities need not be lost. Tolerance does not require the surrender of noble purpose or of individual identity. The Lord gave instruction to leaders of His restored Church to establish and maintain institutional integrity—‘that the Church may stand independent’ (D&C 78:14)” (Elder Russell M. Nelson, “Teach Us Tolerance and Love,” April 1994 general conference). How do I respond respectfully to those who consider the Church’s position on this matter unchristian? Our objection to same‐sex marriage is not based on animosity toward anyone, but on our understanding of God’s purposes for His children. For us, the issues are not simply “tolerance” and “equality.” The issues are the nature of marriage and the consequences of redefining a divinely established institution. In addition, redefining marriage in the law can have profound consequences for society, particularly for children. Mothers and fathers matter, and they are not interchangeable. “On the subject of public discourse, we should all follow the gospel teachings to love our neighbor and avoid contention. Followers of Christ should be examples of civility. We should . . . be good listeners and show concern for the sincere belief [of others.] Though we may disagree, we should not be disagreeable. We should be wise in explaining our position and, in doing so, ask that others not be offended by our sincere religious beliefs and the free exercise of our religion” (Elder Dallin H. Oaks, “Loving Others and Living with Differences,” October 2014 general conference).
What if I have reservations of my own regarding the Church’s position on this subject?
“Members who . . . have doctrinal questions should make a diligent effort, including earnest prayer and scripture study, to find solutions and answers themselves. Church members are encouraged to seek guidance from the Holy Ghost to help them in their personal lives and in family and Church responsibilities.
“If members still need help, they should counsel first with their bishop. If necessary, he may refer them to the stake president. “. . . Stake presidents who need clarification about doctrinal or other Church matters may write in behalf of their members to the First Presidency” (Handbook 2, 21.1.24).

What a tremendous blessing it is to be led by Prophets and Apostles in these the last days.  It will not get any better and we will need to be strong as members of the Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints.  Otherwise, we will be left behind and our eternal salvation will be in jeopardy.  Let's all pray for our Bishops and our Stake Presidents as they move the work along in our local wards and stake congregations!

Mom and I raced home after the meetings to prepare for our service at the Carthage Visitors Center.  We had such a busy day.  I had absolutely no time to sit down and tried to keep our tours right on time.  Our missionaries serving today were awesome!  We had 1188 guests today in a 5 hour period.  This is the highest one day total so far this year, and it will be hard to beat. That is over 200 per hour and nearly reached full possible tour capacity...

We also had over 300 guests attending in our three Young Performing Vignettes, (we normally only have two).  And there were over 100 listening to the Nauvoo Brass Band concert today where we normally have under 20 in attendance.  Mom and I didn't get home until after 5:30pm and we closed at 5:00pm! It was very warm in the Visitors Center today.  We have three main rooms in the center.  The movie room was about 68 degrees, the History room was about 85 degrees and the Lobby was about 78 degrees.  Guess which room I preferred?

Then we traveled into Nauvoo for a Zone Conference meeting and it was some great instruction on how we need to be better and stronger in our commitment to serve in these the last days.  It was very effective for me!  We are very much fully engaged in the last days!

Mom and I traveled home safely, and when I was able to check my email and see if I had any messages from our precious family, I got this email from Duane Matsunaga.  He was a regional young single adult rep that served with Jackie when she was a stake young single adult rep back in the mid 1970's.  Boy did this letter make my day after an already "exceedingly" great day! -

Dear Elder Lasher,

     I wanted to thank you again for making our visit to Carthage both spiritual and memorable.  My wife and I enjoyed our short time there and our testimonies of the Prophet Joseph are now deeply imbedded in our hearts.  Today I bore that testimony in sacrament meeting and encouraged all who have not been to Nauvoo and Carthage to make that journey some day.

     My wife and I recently returned home to Fresno, but since our meeting, your sister and you have occupied on my mind.  To be honest, I have yet to determine the best way to reach out to Jackie, but I have started by contacting some common friends who I am sure know her far better than I. 

     I could only wish she could feel the love and concern you have for her that Joan and I felt that day with you.  She is most fortunate to have someone who loves her that much.  I will pray that some tender mercy will touch her heart and bring her back to the church one day.

     In the meantime, may the Lord bless you and your dear wife in your missionary service.  I pray it will be a time of joy and countless blessings.

With friendship,

Duane Matsunaga / Director of Marketing / Audits
Law Offices of Bradford & Barthel, LLP

I think I am going to sleep well tonight, but I just can't express enough my love for my sister Jackie.  I would not be here today if she hadn't encouraged me along, so many years ago, with my eternal friend Ellen.   Those two precious ladies mean so much to me and have positively affected my married life, and my parenting life, as well as my grand-parenting life!  It is humbling to realize critical turning points in one's life...

"The important thing is this; to be able, at any moment, to sacrifice who we are for who we can become".  (Charles DuBois). That is what Jackie and Ellen helped put into play in my life, so friendships and sisters, (and brothers), play pivot-able roles in all of our lives!  ... shouldn't we all go on in such a great cause?.....

Thank you for checking in with me tonight!  It is past 10:00pm and it is time for bed!