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Thursday, April 30, 2015

April 30, 2015 - Thursday

What another absolutely beautiful Spring day, today!  Mom and I were up at the usual time of 5:30am, (mom was up earlier), and getting ready for the day.  We had the cleaning of the jail this morning, so we got started on that right after our morning devotional and exercise.  Cleaning the jail took a little extra time this morning when we addressed a closet that needed some extra attention.  We did get our walk in but took the shorter route due to the extra time we took.

We began our work at the jail by 9:00am and met our assigned couple there at 9:15am.  The Metcalf's came out for their first experience in Carthage from Nauvoo and they fit right in to the tour assignments.  We enjoyed working with them and their fast learning!  

Mom got the first tour and she had our first guest from Romania.  His girlfriend's family also came to the Rendezvous Play with him tonight and us much appreciated support.  It's always fun to give a tour and then have them come to the play, and to know you, and then give us wild audience support!!

 This is a four generation family, below, coming to Carthage Jail for the first time together.  He was here back in 1964 as a nine year old boy.  He was with his parents and had a remarkable experience then.  As the tour was wrapping up, his tour guide mentioned that the Martyrdom took place at 5:17pm on June 27, 1844.  He said when the guide mentioned this time he routinely checked his watch and it had stopped at 5:17.  He show this to his day who also routinely checked his watch and it said 5:17.  Every man in that room then checked out their watches including the host and they had all stopped at exactly 5:17.  Not sure what to make of the story, but it sure sounded good!  I just hope my testimony was felt today!
 
 
































A great shot of four generations together here at Carthage Jail!

 

Here is our "Emma Hale" cast right after we completed a star performance.  Mom and I had several folks who came to this play tonight to give us wonderful support.  I had practice sessions with some of them after the tour at Carthage this afternoon.  It doesn't ever hurt to help prepare them, in advance, to clap loudly, stomp their feet and yell out "way to go Elder and Sister Lasher"..... Does that remind anyone of early Christmas Day practices???



































Callie and Courtney, here are two twins who came on a tour with Grandpa this afternoon, and then came to the Rendezvous play tonight.  This family was especially touched by the tour and being in the sacred Martyrdom room.  I asked these two precious girls not to leave their testimonies of Joseph Smith in that Martyrdom room.  I know they felt the Spirit and they needed to know that now they had the power to share that testimony with their family and friends.  They reminded Grandpa of you two!

Well, it has been a great day, with probably a little frustration, no maybe a lot of frustration, on my part.  I just can't seem to get my summer part word perfect yet, and I keep consistently stumbling over certain lines.  Grandpa would appreciate your prayers on his behalf so that he can do a good job and not get frustrated.  That would be wonderful!

Thank you for checking in with us tonight.  We have had close to 6,000 hits so far on the blog and I hope that it is worth your time and effort to visit this site and offer your thoughts and comments.  Have a good evening!

Wednesday, April 29, 2015

April 29, 2015 - Wednesday

Today we had our P-day and certainly enjoyed our time together.  We had our mission weekly training meeting at the Visitors Center in Nauvoo at 7:45am and we arrived at 7:30am this morning.  It is always good to get to those meetings early and have some time to talk with missionaries we don't get to see very often.  Carthage does isolate us a little!

The meeting was all about facing disappointments and discouragement in our lives.  There were several missionaries invited to share some extreme challenges they have faced and how they were able to cope and persevere.  One single sister had been married for 30 years to a man who was Bishop and then Stake President.  While he was serving as the Stake President he decided to leave her and pursue a younger lady.  Another couple lost a daughter in December 2014, who was healthy in every way, but died within 5 days of going to the hospital.  

Then another single sister lost her husband and her father in an eight month period, leaving her and her mother as widows.  It was from this special lady I got this insight;  She had a "prayer of relinquishment" where she had reached point of all she could carry on her own, and had to turn it over to Heavenly Father.  She said that she was not about to take it back and that she needed to choose "gratitude and joy", over discouragement and bitterness, and with this commitment, the Spirit helped her through it all.  It was a very special meeting.

Then, mom and I got to enjoy the balance of the day together.  We picked up a period table for the Visitors Center in Carthage, took some pictures of the greenhouses where the flowers and plants are being prepared for the after Mother's Day plantings, and did some light grocery shopping.  Here are the greenhouse pictures:










Here is one of our favorite grocery stores in Keokuk.  The prices are amazing.  They have a very limited selection but sufficient for our needs.  The milk price per gallon is $1.99.  It just went up from $1.69.  The Wal-Mart across the street is at $3.69 a gallon!  The cucumbers are .39 each.  And eggs are $1.09 per dozen.  We can stretch our money here.  We are still using the money we got from the MTC for travel expenses, to spend here on groceries, since they only accept cash.  We are stretching those pennies as far as we can!

This is the highway between Nauvoo and Keokuk.  The river is on the right and the trees are budding and filling in beautifully.  This is the road we take on Wednesdays, after our training meeting at 7:45am, to do our shopping in Keokuk.

Mom and I then made it to the Kibbe Museum right across the street from the Carthage jail.  We have been making some great inroads with the people of Carthage over the past few months and mom and I wanted to go over and introduce ourselves.  I have only heard good things about this collection of artifacts, but mom and I were absolutely amazed at what we saw.  We will be sure to take everyone over who comes to visit us here!  Take a look at some fascinating things here;


Mom right in front of the museum.  The Carthage jail is about 25 feet behind the guy taking the picture!  What a beautiful lady!



This is the most detailed doll house I have ever seen.  There are lights in each room and room layouts with furniture and accessories throughout the display.

 This is a school room around 1860, complete with all the furniture, paperwork, maps, and period supplies.

Here is Doctor Josh's office around 1860.  The chair and the assistants table. "Come here little Bobby and let my pull that nasty achy tooth....."  Yeah right!

Take a look at these tools.  One slip with that drill and you would have two large openings in your facial area right above the chin!  I could chip concrete with that tool, but Josh would just smile and then fire up the drill!

Another shot of "the drill".  I would have to believe that any toothache would be better than having this drill running wild in my mouth!


To all the grandchildren, this is an amazing collection of rocks and geodes.  They were found in the Nauvoo, Warsaw, Carthage area around the beginning of the 1900's.  It is amazing to look at each one of these rocks!
 
 A collection of period clothing about 1875 or so. 

And this calf was born with two heads and lived just a short time.  This was a fascinating display!  I just hope that his condition was not caused by the water we are drinking!

This museum was a fun place to visit and we will go back there again.  They have several pretty interesting displays on Abraham Lincoln, turn of the last century coffins and caskets, horse drawn Hearst, service uniforms from the Civil War, and a huge collection of mint condition arrow heads, and hundreds of other things.  It was worth the two hours we were there!

Our summer play called "Sunset" practice was this evening as we closed out our day  It is fun to interact with the missionaries when we go into Nauvoo.  I also get to practice my lines while we drive in for my part of the summer version of Rendezvous, and I am getting close to getting it perfect.  This old brain just seems to "selectively" remember those lines I am trying to memorize.  One pass through and I think I have it nailed, and then I try again and get stumped on the next line..... go figure.

At least the drive home on a late Wednesday evening has its benefits.  Take a look at this sunset tonight! - 
































Such beautiful sunsets when we have the clouds prominently showing in the night time sky!  

We are very blessed to drive into Nauvoo and back to Carthage so many times with safety and peace riding with us.  We attribute this to all the prayers on our behalf and the support you give us every day.  Thank you for helping these two senior missionaries travel this road of the mission life.  We could not do this without you!





Tuesday, April 28, 2015

April 28, 2015 - Tuesday

Mom and I were excited about today.  It was a beautiful Spring day in Carthage and started off at around 44 degrees for our walk this morning.  We had our morning devotional and our walk and then we came home for a nice workout before breakfast.  We target 9:00am to be over at the Visitors Center to get everything opened up and ready for the day.  Our tours began today at around 9:30am with a family of six and a young couple. 

The family of six came from Layton, Utah, and his mother, back in Utah, are in Amy and Josh's Ward.  I sent a text to Amy and she did not recognize the name, but this, again, is an example of such a small world!  Our tours were small in number but trickled in throughout the day.  

I gave my last tour to a family of four who came from Brazil.  He is currently headed to New York on an internship and made the decision to come through Carthage and Nauvoo on their way.  They got here about 10 minutes before closing but I could not turn them away and we had a sweet tour together.  They made a commitment to return after the internship in September to spend more time here at the Visitors Center.

The evening ended here at our cozy little home.  It is always so much fun to circle the wagons and settle into our little home and think about how grateful we are for our family, our friends, and the precious blessing it is to serve here in Carthage.  Every time I get to lead a group through the Martyrdom room, my appreciation for Joseph and Hyrum is magnified and my testimony is fixed and focused on the purpose of their lives.  Carthage and Calvary have so many things in common.

Monday, April 27, 2015

April 27, 2015 - Monday

Here we are at the end of another great day here in Carthage.  It was an absolutely beautiful day and we got an early start this morning.  After our devotional and prayers, we went over to super clean the jail.  On Saturday evening we had a group of 33 scouts who biked from Nauvoo to Carthage and then wanted to take the tour.  The only problem was that they had to ride through mud and puddles of water and came with the muddiest shoes and pants possible and wanted to track the mud into the Visitors Center.  We were able to catch some of the less than considerate scouts and had them take off their shoes.  But then their socks were just as dirty.  So, this morning, our work was cut out for us and I think we got most of the residue cleaned up.

We had about 30 minutes for our morning walk and then we headed home and got ready for the day.  It was another slow day here in Carthage, but a little better than last Monday.  Mom and I took turns going on the tours that another missionary was giving and that was helpful to see how others did it.  We all were very close to the same tour presentation.

I was called this evening as the District Leader for Carthage and the Site Leader.  We will have six young single sisters and 4 senior couples in the district.  We are gearing up for the what is expected to be the busiest summer yet and I am just a little excited to get things organized.  

Mom and I gave a tour to the Iowa, Des Moines Mission President and his wife and granddaughter this afternoon.  He engaged us in discussing the possibility of putting 2 Elders out in Carthage this summer, and we fully endorsed that idea.  They last had a set of single sisters here in Carthage over a year ago and pulled them because they were threatened and had rocks thrown at them.  It is a little crazy here, but mom and I have seen a little softening of attitudes.  The time should be right to bring the missionaries back.  There are two missions that overlap each other.  The Illinois, Nauvoo Mission and the Iowa, Des Moines Mission.  The biggest difference is the ages of the companionship's!  And one of the missions gets to choose their companions!!

This tour guide is up for the very coveted "awesome tour guide of the year" award!  However, he has little chance of taking that coveted title.... Sister Lasher has already claimed that spot!

This is right outside the Visitors Center just after we show the movie.  We tell a little bit about the jail and then start that part of the tour through the jail.
This is the first room inside the jail.  It is the room where the jailers wife fed the prisoners.  The furniture is all period reproductions, but the window sills and the interior door frames are all original.  This building is 174 years old and is our shelter when there is a tornado warning in the Carthage area.  It is a very well built building.















This is the Martyrdom room.  This is my favorite part of the tour presentation.  As I review the 24 years of Joseph's life, from the Sacred Grove, to the Carthage jail, I marvel at what he was able to accomplish.  He was tutored and taught and prepared for his responsibilities, and with the precious experiences he had with those teaching him along with the extreme persecutions he was faced with nearly everyday, he never denied his testimony.  It was here in this room that he sealed that testimony, along with his brother, Hyrum, with their blood.

It will give the visitor a much greater appreciation for the Prophet Joseph when they hear a testimony that includes; "I am grateful for the Prophet Joseph Smith"....






This will be a very interesting and sweet summer for us!  We hope to see you come to Carthage while we are here!  The tours are being booked and the calendar is filling up, but there is always open days, so if you are coming, give me a call!

Our Rendezvous Play went smooth tonight.  I had another part added that was fun tonight.  It comes when Peter asks "is anyone married?"..... and I say; "I'm not, ...... but I can take orders if that is what you mean?"  It is a coveted line that all the guys want!  It was a fun show tonight...  We had a great audience and several were on tours with us in Carthage over the last few days.  That is always a bonus to have them come and treat us like old friends...  well, I guess we are old.... and we are friends....

Thank you for checking in with the "Laoag and on to Nauvoo" Blog tonight!  We are grateful for your love and support!!

Sunday, April 26, 2015

April 26, 2015 - Sunday

Mom was up early this morning getting ready for our Sabbath Day.  She got me up about 6:00am after she was done getting ready for our day. We had our prayers and devotional and then left for our meetings in Nauvoo at 7:10am.  We picked up the Skidmores at their place next door and got to the Stake Center by 7:45am.  The attendance was over double what it has been as the temple missionaries for the summer, serving six month missions,  have arrived.  Over 90 couples from all over are serving in the Nauvoo Temple during the busy summer season that begins in May and goes through September.  The temple will even be open on Mondays from 8:00am until 11:00am for morning sessions to accommodate the visitors to Nauvoo.  We are hoping we will still get to attend every week under the anticipated load!

Our Sacrament Meeting was, again, wonderful.  Elder and Sister Wright spoke as the next senior couple missionaries ending their mission.  They are from the Inkom, Idaho, area and will be leaving Nauvoo next week.  They have been in our Rendezvous cast and we have enjoyed getting to know them.  A big tradition in this mission is for the departing missionaries to perform a skit at the monthly mission breakfast.  The Wrights wanted to have all the missionaries from Idaho do a number with them for their farewell back home, so guess who got invited to go on stage with them....on stage again?

There was a young single sister who also spoke with them and she told us of a youth Sunday School Class that she attended when she was about 14 years old that she will never forget.  That statement caught my attention since I know how much my daughters put into their lessons.  She said that this class started off like every other class with conversation and small talk among 8 or 9 classmates.  

The teacher brought the class to order and told them she had received an urgent message from President Thomas S. Monson, that he felt impressed to ask all youth to turn in their cell phones.  The message was that the cell phones were taking away and robbing, from the precious youth, their ability to make good choices and that they were becoming a big distraction to their spiritual growth.  

A young man in the class said something to the effect that if President Monson wanted them to turn in their phones, he would do it and he handed the teacher his phone.  She thanked him and set the phone on the table and took out a hammer and destroyed the phone.  She then asked if there were others who had cell phones to turn in..... The young sister said the person sitting next to her echoed her feelings when she whispered that she could not live without her cell phone and that she would not give hers up....

You can imagine the feelings going through the class for those several minutes!  The teacher then said that it was interesting to see what things would get in the way of being obedient to a Prophet.  This object lesson was very traumatic to this group of youth, but the lesson was taught and the pondering over the message of obedience stuck with this young lady for years!  That leads to this question; Where do we draw the line on obedience?
                                                                                                                                                                                                            
We had a very quiet day at the Visitors Center, but we had some wonderful guests throughout the day.  We even had a couple visiting from Kauai in the Hawaiian Islands.  This was significant because Amy and Josh and Cambry and Isaac and Callie and Courtney are on vacation there!

I had two groups I gave tours to who were marvelous to work with.  In one family group, the young single men were visiting from Chicago and one had his mother visiting from Mexico.  They were a great group and I suggested to the young men that they return for a day visit with members from their YSA ward in Chicago.  I asked them to bring active and less active members of the ward along with friends who were not members, yet, on a day field trip to Carthage for a missionary experience!  And I think they might do that!

The other family was relocating to Kentucky.  He is in the Army Intelligence and he and his wife brought their family of 5 children under the age of 9.  What a treat to work with a family like this.  The 4 and 5 year old children were asking me some very deep questions about why Joseph was brought to the jail.  It was a sweet experience to answer their questions and to encourage them to tell their Primary Class in Kentucky about their experience in Carthage.

Then, mom and I headed home for a quiet evening.  We got to talk to some family members and enjoyed our evening together.....  Thank you for checking out the blog tonight!

Saturday, April 25, 2015

April 25, 2015 - Saturday

We woke up to a heavy rain storm and the beautiful sound of that rain falling on the roof.  By the time we finished our morning devotional and had cleaned the jail, the rain had stopped so that we could take a nice morning walk.  Look at how nice the brick pavers looked this morning;


Also, this is a picture of mom and Elder and Sister Shepherd getting ready for our prayer meeting at the Visitors Center.  What a great place to be!


I thought that you might be interested to see this reflection that we rarely but sometimes see on a cludy and rainy day.  The conditions were perfect for this picture in the Visitors Center;

To be reflected in the window of the lower room, which is the dining room, of the Carthage jail;

The distance between the Visitors Center picture and the window of the jail is about 60' to 75' away and gives such a special view of Joseph seeming to be looking out from the dining room window into the Visitors Center.

Tonight, I wanted to briefly tell my grandchildren of the special relationship Joseph had with Hyrum.  We discussed Samuel last night, so I wanted to share some thoughts and feelings I have had and have gained from the tours I have given and the times I have pondered in the Martyrdom room about Joseph and Hyrum.  I have gathered this information from my readings and have noted the sources below;

The Saints in Nauvoo Are Persecuted

By 1844 the Saints had built Nauvoo into a large and prosperous city in Illinois, and more members of the Church were moving to Nauvoo each day. Many non–Latter-day Saints in Illinois were afraid of the potential economic and political power of so many members of the Church. They began to persecute the Saints.
Some enemies of the Church believed that if they got rid of Joseph Smith, the Church would fall apart. These men started a newspaper in which they told many vicious lies about Joseph Smith. The members of the Church were angry about these lies. Joseph Smith, who was mayor of Nauvoo at the time, called a meeting of the city council, which was composed of both Church members and nonmembers. The city council declared the newspaper a “public nuisance” and ordered the town marshal to destroy the printing press used to print the newspaper.
The enemies of the Church used this event to justify even more persecution of the Saints and the Prophet. The governor of Illinois, Thomas Ford, urged Joseph Smith and the other members of the city council to come to Carthage, Illinois, to stand trial for the destruction of the press. The governor promised that the men would be safe. Joseph wrote the governor that he felt their lives would be in danger if they went to Carthage. Joseph did not think a fair trial was possible, and he doubted that the governor could protect them as promised.
Believing that they were the only ones wanted by the enemies of the Church, Joseph and Hyrum went into hiding and made plans to move west with their families. But when a posse from Carthage came to Nauvoo, they threatened to take over the city if Joseph and Hyrum were not found. Some of the Saints were afraid of the posse and called Joseph and Hyrum cowards for leaving Nauvoo. When Joseph heard this he was sad, and he said, “If my life is of no value to my friends it is of none to me.” Joseph asked Hyrum what they should do, and Hyrum responded, “Let us go back and give ourselves up, and see the thing out” (History of the Church, 6:549).
Joseph knew that if they went back they would be killed, but he told other Church leaders: “I am going like a lamb to the slaughter, but I am calm as a summer’s morning. I have a conscience void of offense toward God and toward all men. If they take my life I shall die an innocent man, and my blood shall cry from the ground for vengeance, and it shall be said of me ‘He was murdered in cold blood!’” (History of the Church, 6:555; see also D&C 135:4).

Joseph and Hyrum Smith Are Murdered

Joseph and Hyrum went to Carthage, and on 25 June 1844 they were falsely accused of rioting and treason (working against the government). They and several of their friends were put in the Carthage Jail, where mobs threatened and cursed them. In jail the brethren prayed and read the Book of Mormon. The Prophet bore his testimony of the truth of the gospel to the men guarding them.
Dan Jones was one of the brethren in jail with the Prophet. On the morning of 27 June 1844 one of the prison guards told him:
“We have had too much trouble to bring Old Joe here to let him ever escape alive, and unless you want to die with him you had better leave before sundown; … and you’ll see that I can prophesy better than Old Joe, for neither he nor his brother, nor anyone who will remain with them will see the sun set today” (History of the Church, 6:602).
Dan Jones reported this threat to Governor Ford, but the governor replied, “You are unnecessarily alarmed for the safety of your friends, sir, the people are not that cruel” (History of the Church, 6:603). Then the governor left Carthage, leaving some of the Prophet’s worst enemies in charge of the jail. That day most of the Prophet’s friends were ordered to leave the jail.
Only four men remained in Carthage Jail: the Prophet Joseph Smith; his brother Hyrum; and John Taylor and Willard Richards, two of the Apostles. These four men had two guns that had been given to them by friends who visited them. Elder Taylor and Elder Richards also had walking canes.
Because the governor had left Carthage and had put some members of the mob in charge of the jail, the four men knew their lives were in danger. That morning Joseph had written a letter to his family telling them that he loved them and that he was innocent. In the letter he also pronounced a blessing on his family and friends. In the afternoon John Taylor sang “A Poor Wayfaring Man of Grief” (Hymns, no. 29). This beautiful song about the Savior comforted the men greatly, and the Prophet asked Elder Taylor to sing it again.
Around five o’clock in the evening a mob of about one hundred men attacked the jail. Many of the men had blackened their faces with mud and gunpowder so they would not be recognized.The guards at the jail were friends of the mobbers and made no serious attempt to stop the attack. Some members of the mob shot at the windows of the jail, and others ran up the stairs to shoot into the room where the Church leaders were.
The brethren tried to bar the door shut and use their few weapons to drive off the mob. Joseph Smith fired a pistol and John Taylor used his heavy cane to try to knock down the guns of the mob as they were pushed into the room through the door, but there were too many people in the mob for the brethren to defend themselves.

Hyrum Smith was shot in the face by a bullet fired through the door. He fell to the floor, crying out, “I am a dead man!” As he fell he was hit by three other bullets. Joseph cried out, “Oh dear, brother Hyrum!” (History of the Church, 6:618).
John Taylor moved toward the open window, hoping to jump to safety. A bullet fired from inside the jail hit his leg and he started to fall out the window, but a second bullet from outside the jail hit his pocket watch with such force that it pushed him back into the room, saving his life. Elder Taylor was hit with three more bullets as he crawled under the bed.
After Hyrum and John Taylor were shot, the Prophet moved to the window. He was hit by two bullets fired from the doorway of the room and a third bullet fired from outside the jail. He cried, “Oh Lord, my God!” and fell out the window (History of the Church, 6:618).
The mob inside the jail ran out to see the Prophet’s body, and Willard Richards hurried to the window. After seeing the Prophet’s lifeless body, Elder Richards ran for the door. He stopped when he heard John Taylor cry out from under the bed. He knew he would not be able to carry Elder Taylor out right away, so he hid him under an old mattress, saying, “If your wounds are not fatal, I want you to live to tell the story” (History of the Church, 6:621). Elder Richards expected to be shot as he left the jail, but before the mob could make sure they had killed all four men, someone mistakenly shouted, “The Mormons are coming!” and the mob members fled into the woods.
Elder Richards had not been injured in the attack. This miracle fulfilled a prophecy made a year earlier by Joseph Smith, who had told Elder Richards that there would be a time when “the balls [bullets] would fly around him like hail, and he should see his friends fall on the right and on the left,” but he would not be hurt (History of the Church, 6:619).
The Prophet’s brother Samuel was on his way to Carthage to help his brothers. He was chased by members of the mob along the way, and he arrived, exhausted, to find that his brothers had been murdered. He helped move his brothers’ bodies to an inn in Carthage. Tired and weak from his trip to Carthage, Samuel developed a bad fever, and he died the next month.
The bodies of Joseph and Hyrum were carried back to Nauvoo in wagons and laid out in the Mansion House. The next day, ten thousand Saints waited in line to walk past the caskets and pay their respects. The Saints grieved over the loss of the Prophet and his brother.
Lucy Mack Smith wrote of seeing her martyred sons:
“I had for a long time braced every nerve, roused every energy of my soul and called upon God to strengthen me, but when I entered the room and saw my murdered sons extended both at once before my eyes and heard the sobs and groans of my family … it was too much; I sank back, crying to the Lord in the agony of my soul, ‘My God, my God, why hast thou forsaken this family!’ A voice replied, ‘I have taken them to myself, that they might have rest’” (Lucy Mack Smith, History of Joseph Smith, p. 324).
Doctrine and Covenants 135 contains an account of the martyrdom written by Elder John Taylor, who was wounded in the attack that killed Joseph and Hyrum. Elder Taylor said Joseph Smith “lived great, and he died great in the eyes of God and his people; and like most of the Lord’s anointed in ancient times, has sealed his mission and his works with his own blood; and so has his brother Hyrum. In life they were not divided, and in death they were not separated!” (D&C 135:3).
Before the Prophet’s father died, he had given Joseph a blessing and told him, “You shall even live to finish your work. … You shall live to lay out the plan of all the work which God has given you to do” (quoted in Smith, pp. 309–10). Joseph Smith valiantly completed his mission, doing all God asked him to do.
ets [Salt Lake City: Deseret Book Co., 1975], pp. 96–97.)

Thinking about Joseph and Hyrum it occurred to me that they had an age difference like my grandsons Bobby and his brother Johnny, and Cody and his brother Landon.  Bobby and Cody are the oldest by about 5 years and Hyrum was older than Joseph by about 5 years.  Now here is the interesting part, Hyrum believed Joseph from the very beginning and supported his brother the rest of his life in the work of the Restoration.  I can picture Bobby and Cody doing the same thing for their brothers Johnny and Landon, and I know that as Bobby and Cody think about their brothers, like Hyrum thought about Joseph, they will be best friends all of their mortal lives and into and throughout the eternities.

As I have studied and have pondered in this Martyrdom room with this door closed, I can picture Hyrum and Joseph side-by-side holding the door closed.  You see, they were in the bedroom of the jailer George Stigall where he suggested Joseph and Hyrum go on the evening of June 26, 1844, for additional protection.  The room was more comfortable and he probably felt would be safer.  Since the door did not lock, and with the afternoon of June 27, 1844, being hot and humid, that door was probably open along with the three bedroom windows just for air circulation.  When the mob rushed the stairway, I picture Joseph and Hyrum and Willard Richards and John Taylor shutting the door and leaning heavily on it.  Hyrum was on the side closest to the door knob and Joseph was right next to him.  Willard and John were on either side.  Take a look at the angle they had to be pushing from where they were both leaning forward.  Hyrum was hit in the face on the left side of his nose with the second ball, about a 55 to 60 caliber shot, and both brothers locking eyes and knowing that this would be the final time they would see each other alive.  And then the murders were completed and both men were gone.  They sealed their testimonies during these moments with their blood.

Now, it is important to note that Joseph knew he would have to seal his testimony with his blood.  He didn't want Hyrum to come with him, but Hyrum was not about to leave his brother alone.  They had both been together after that 1st glorious vision,and Hyrum saw, first hand, the growth that Joseph experienced as he was taught and tutored, and prepared to participate, as the Lord's anointed, to be an instrument in the  restoration of the Gospel of Jesus Christ.  They experienced the most wonderful highs together and were companions during the most viscous oppositions and persecutions over that 24 year period from the Spring of 1820 until that summer day in June 1844.  Section 135 explains this moment completely;  He, (Joseph), lived great, and he died great in the eyes of God and his people; and like most of the Lord’s anointed in ancient times, has sealed his mission and his works with his own blood; and so has his brother Hyrum. In life they were not divided, and in death they were not separated!  

It is an amazing story that gives me such a debt of gratitude to them for their lives, their examples as brothers and as Church Leaders.That gives me a whole new meaning to the testimony borne on a Fast Sunday, when someone says to the effect, "I am grateful for the Prophet Joseph Smith".  After being in this room, that testimony is magnified.

Thank you for joining with me tonight!  I appreciate your posted comments, your emails, your love and your support!




Friday, April 24, 2015

April 24, 2015 - Friday

OK, where did this week go?  I woke up today and realized it was Friday and had to wonder out loud to mom, how is it that the time is so swiftly going forward?  

We got an early start to our workday with our morning devotional and our walk around Carthage.  The temperature was in the high 40's this morning, about 15 degrees warmer than yesterday.  It was a perfect morning for a brisk walk after our morning workout.

Yesterday I had the assignment to provide the hot dogs for our cast party on Friday May 1st.  I immediately thought of Sam's Club and our favorite Nathan's hot dogs.  But while I was walking this morning, I thought about approaching the County Grocery Store just across the street from the Visitors Center.  Since I needed the hot dogs, buns and some sliced onions, I felt impressed to go and see what they could do for us.  

It was a good move.  I met the store director, Tim, and he seemed grateful to try and fill the order I had for 84 dogs, 84 hoagie rolls and 5 pounds of sliced onions.  In the course of our conversation I was able to ask him if he had been over to the Visitors Center across the street.  He told me that he had not and I was able to extend an invitation for him to come over.  Let's see what happens....  We are trying to get more involved with the Carthage community and this seemed to be a good move today.

Mom and I also had another tender mercy at the Visitors Center today.  We met Elder and Sister Bender who served as office missionaries in the Texas, Dallas Mission from 2003 to 2004, for an 18 month mission.  They were responsible for the Chinese, Mandarin speaking missionaries and were in a great need for a Mandarin speaking missionary in April 2003, but the next group who would be ready from the MTC would be sent out in August....  Then, Elder Dustin Tillman came into the MTC with previous Mandarin language skills and was able to enter the Texas, Dallas Mission earlier and these senior missionaries were quick to admit that Elder Tillman was an answer to their prayers.  The Tillman Family have been friends for over 25 years and it was really a great opportunity to meet the Bender's today!  And yes, here is their picture!...;

  What a very small world!

I have been doing some research on Samuel H. Smith.  This was the Prophet's younger brother.  I have been so impressed with learning about him and his role in the Restoration.  There are so many wonderful parts of the Restoration and the pieces of the puzzle that had to be in place as a support to the Prophet Joseph.  Samuel was one of those of great support to his brothers and was the third man baptized in the Church in 1829.  I am particularly drawn to Samuel because he was so much like his older brother Hyrum.  He gave his full support and allegiance to his brother Joseph in helping preach the Gospel and administer the affairs of the Church while staying low key in the process.  

I found this article in the 2008 Ensign  and just wanted to post this part of his wonderful and loyal support to his brothers.  I can only imagine how his heart must have been broken during his ride to Carthage on June 27th, and then his faithfulness in bringing Joseph and Hyrum back to Nauvoo.  There are many historians that support the idea that Samuel was the third martyr from that awful afternoon and evening on June 27th, that initially claimed Joseph and Hyrum's lives and 34 days later claimed Samuel's. 

Samuel H. Smith Rides to Carthage

On June 27, 1844, while still living in Plymouth, Samuel learned that his brothers Joseph and Hyrum, who were in Carthage Jail with John Taylor and Willard Richards, were in danger. Samuel headed toward Carthage with a 14-year-old boy driving a wagon. On the way they met a mob, which attacked when they learned Samuel was Joseph Smith’s brother. The boy headed to Carthage with the wagon, and Samuel escaped into the woods “after severe fatigue, and much danger.” 
He made his way home and “acquired a horse noted for its speed.”  His six-year-old daughter, Mary, remembers this moment: “My father came into the house in much excitement, and said … ‘I think I can break through the mob and get to Carthage’ and immediately he mounted the horse and was gone.” 
As he neared the town, a man and woman escaping in a buggy told him his brothers had been killed. Samuel rode on at great speed. Some of the mob, expecting his return, had hidden in a thicket. They chased Samuel, shooting at him. A bullet passed through the top of his hat, but Samuel, an excellent horseman, outran them.
Samuel was the first Latter-day Saint to arrive at the jail,  but by then Joseph and Hyrum were already dead. The violence was over, the mob had retreated, and Samuel had a piercing pain in his side.
Samuel helped Willard Richards take the two bodies and the severely wounded John Taylor to a nearby hotel owned by Artois Hamilton. That night Willard wrote a letter to Emma telling her that Joseph and Hyrum were dead. Samuel’s signature appears alongside that of Willard Richards and John Taylor. 
The next day, Samuel, Willard, and Artois took the bodies of Joseph and Hyrum in two wagons to the Mansion House in Nauvoo. Samuel drove the wagon carrying the body of his brother Joseph. A guard of eight men accompanied them. 
After Lucy viewed the bodies, Samuel said, “Mother, I have had a dreadful distress in my side ever since I was chased by the mob.” 
Though Samuel was in pain and Levira was only weeks away from delivering a baby, the family moved into a two-story frame house opposite the Mansion House. Samuel’s health continued to decline. On July 30, just 34 days after Joseph and Hyrum died, Samuel died. His young daughter Mary remembered how “silence gave way to sobs” after their father passed away. His cause of death was listed as bilious fever. 
Levira, “a mild, quiet” woman,  left Susannah, Mary, and Samuel with Hyrum’s widow, Mary Fielding Smith, and took her toddler to her parents. Twenty-one days after Samuel died, Lucy J. C. Smith was born and died soon after. Levira was ill and was unable to return to Nauvoo for some time.

 We are so very grateful for Joseph and Hyrum and Samuel and each of those intimately involved with the growth of the Church in the 1830's and beyond.  I can't help but ponder about how Joseph went into the Sacred Grove in the Spring of 1820 and was trusted to meet Heavenly Father and His Son Jesus Christ.  Then, over the next 24 years, Joseph was tutored, and taught, and magnified to take on the responsibilites of being the Prophet of the restoration.  He had many marvelous experiences, manifestations, and visions of how to proceed, even in the process of extreme persecution, abuse, false accusations and defamation, not to mention the heart rending separations from his precious family.  All this, and never denying his testimony.  Sitting in the Carthage Jail and testifying to a group of people so interested in his life and his death, I can't help but think that when one of us stands up in a testimony meeting and says; "I am grateful for the Prophet Joseph Smith", it takes on a whole new meaning to define that word - "grateful".

Well, it has been a busy day and we got back from our Sunset practice for our Summer show, "Sunset by the Mississippi" about two hours ago.  It should be a great summer show and what a bonus it will be to see an old guy, (or two), up on that stage singing and dancing their hearts out!  Definitely worth the price of admission!!!  (By the way, there is no charge for admission)...

Thanks for checking in with me tonight!  I have had quite a few wonderful responses to my blog and that keeps me going. So, thank you for your love, and your support, and most importantly, your prayers!  

We love you!











Thursday, April 23, 2015

April 23, 2015 - Thursday

Our day started off at 38 degrees this morning at 6:00am, and it was cold!  We got a good start with our morning devotional and with our assignment to clean the Carthage Jail, and take our long morning walk.  What a privilege it is to help work on the upkeep of the historic site here in Carthage as well as giving historic tours to guests from all over the world!

We did have a very slow day, again today.  This time of year is right between Spring break and the end of school terms.  I am sure the closing of the Nauvoo Temple contributes as well to the slow period.  We were working with two young sister missionaries and a senior couple today.  However, we only had six tours all day so it was hard to keep everyone awake!  So goes the work on a slower day.  I did catch this one picture of my mission companion;

 Sure beats the picture of the great haircut, doesn't it!  I had a group arrive right near closing and I gave them the full tour.  They were on their way home to Maine after they picked up their son and daughter-in-law from BYU-Idaho.  The son just graduated and they were going home to Maine to join the family business.  You have got to love those family businesses!  

Although it has been a slow day, it has been a good day.  Mom and I came home for a quiet evening, rare here in the mission field.  We hope that each of you are doing well and we thank you for keeping us posted on your lives as we live at this portion of our lives here in the Nauvoo Mission!  By the way, I was given the assignment to pick up the hot dogs and the buns for our cast party May 1st.  Everyone will get a sampling of the Topp Dawg Cuisine on that Friday activity!

Wednesday, April 22, 2015

April 22, 2015 - Wednesday

Wednesday has been our permanent preparation day since we arrived here in the Nauvoo Mission in February 2015.  Mom and I look forward to our day off together where we always start each day with our morning devotional and exercise.  We then we attend the mission training meeting that takes place each Wednesday morning at 7:45am and follow that by a temple session right after that meeting.  We then get a few hours to do laundry, shop and take care of car washings, etc. 

However, over the next two weeks the temple is closed so that gave us another 2 hours of prep time together.  And we took great advantage of that time!

After getting up early for our meeting this morning, we headed to Keokuk for a few groceries.  We headed home to unload them and to check out a barber here in Carthage.  When we were in line to check out at the grocery store in Keokuk, mom struck up a conversation with a couple who we found out work at the Kibbe Museum here in Carthage and they recommended "Brownie" at the Carthage barber shop.  It was a great recommendation and here is the haircut pictured to the left.... what a pathetic picture but what a great haircut!  However, I know that all my grandchildren will love the picture!!

Mom and I took a ride to Quincy this afternoon, and had a fun outing together knowing that we had some extra time today.  We looked over their mall and got a few things at Sam's Club, and then headed home for lunch.  I was able to do a little clean-up on the van and then we got to sit in the sun on the front lawn for a few minutes before heading to Rendezvous for the play tonight.  

As you can see, it has been a very quiet day. You can probably tell that this was a slow news day today.......  By any chance did the self portrait give it away?  I thought I was pretty discrete about it ....

Well, we will have some better news tomorrow!  We will be back to work and greeting the visitors coming to the Visitors Center.  We are grateful to be here in Carthage working with so many wonderful visitors!  And we hope to see many of our family and friends here in the coming months!!!

Thank you for checking in with us tonight!





Tuesday, April 21, 2015

April 21, 2015 - Tuesday

The day dawned beautiful with no clouds in the sky.  The temperature was a brisk 38 degrees but very little wind.  So after our morning devotional and exercise, mom and I hit the walking trail at about 6:40am and enjoyed a wonderful walk around the town.  We extended our walk to about 45 minutes and came home to get ready for the day as missionaries.  The fields are all lush green and beautiful as the Spring season rolls forward.  We are sure enjoying the changing of the season here in Carthage!  Isn't this a great field of green?



And again, we had another slow day at the Visitors Center.  However, my second tour involved some family members related to Becky and Jerry Jensen from our Rigby 10th Ward.  It was Sister Jensen's Aunt Zada from Ashton, Idaho.  She came with her brother and sister on a Church history tour.  She indicated that she was 76 years old and had hoped to fulfill this lifelong dream of visiting Carthage Jail.  What a privilege it was to give her this tour.  She could not climb the stairs to the Martyrdom room but she was so grateful just to walk through the building and hear about the sacred events that transpired.  I had to take their picture!

Dolly Bardsey, Earl Jensen, Zada Wilcox

























We had a very quiet day at the Visitors Center, but we are gearing up for a busy summer.  We are now getting phone calls from tour groups for this summer and we are looking forward to helping each group have a wonderful experience here in Carthage.

To close out our day, we attended our Sunset practice for the outdoor show this summer.  Our cast will have the opening show on Saturday May 23rd.  This should be a lot of fun to do, but if I had my preference.......

Tomorrow is our preparation day.  After our mission training meeting at 7:45am tomorrow in Nauvoo, mom and I are going to enjoy the day together until we meet again, tomorrow night, in Nauvoo at the Cultural Hall for the Rendezvous play.  Always busy and never a dull moment!

Thank you for joining us tonight!  Not much to report but we are so grateful for the connections we make with family and friends back home!!

Monday, April 20, 2015

April 20, 2015 - Monday

Today was cold and cloudy most of the day, and very quiet here at the Carthage Visitors Center.  Mom and I were up early and had our morning devotional together before our walk.  We also cleaned the jail as part of our Monday responsibilities and then got ready for the day. 

It was a very quiet day at the center and gave me an opportunity to study more about the life of the Prophet Joseph Smith.  I have wanted to gain a better understanding of the teachings of Joseph Smith as the Prophet of the Restoration, and have wanted to understand as much as I could about the practice of plural marriage. 

It seems like every history book about the life of Joseph touches very briefly on this subject, so I started my own research.  Here is an article I found interesting, and wanted to post here for my posterity to better understand.  It is one of the most challenging and controversial subjects in Church History, at least in my limited understanding, and I was grateful for the information noted here from an article posted on the Church website;

Plural Marriage in Kirtland and Nauvoo

Latter-day Saints believe that monogamy—the marriage of one man and one woman—is the Lord’s standing law of marriage.1 In biblical times, the Lord commanded some of His people to practice plural marriage—the marriage of one man and more than one woman.2 Some early members of The Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints also received and obeyed this commandment given through God’s prophets.
After receiving a revelation commanding him to practice plural marriage, Joseph Smith married multiple wives and introduced the practice to close associates. This principle was among the most challenging aspects of the Restoration—for Joseph personally and for other Church members. Plural marriage tested faith and provoked controversy and opposition. Few Latter-day Saints initially welcomed the restoration of a biblical practice entirely foreign to their sensibilities. But many later testified of powerful spiritual experiences that helped them overcome their hesitation and gave them courage to accept this practice.
Although the Lord commanded the adoption—and later the cessation—of plural marriage in the latter days, He did not give exact instructions on how to obey the commandment. Significant social and cultural changes often include misunderstandings and difficulties. Church leaders and members experienced these challenges as they heeded the command to practice plural marriage and again later as they worked to discontinue it after Church President Wilford Woodruff issued an inspired statement known as the Manifesto in 1890, which led to the end of plural marriage in the Church. Through it all, Church leaders and members sought to follow God’s will.
Many details about the early practice of plural marriage are unknown. Plural marriage was introduced among the early Saints incrementally, and participants were asked to keep their actions confidential. They did not discuss their experiences publicly or in writing until after the Latter-day Saints had moved to Utah and Church leaders had publicly acknowledged the practice. The historical record of early plural marriage is therefore thin: few records of the time provide details, and later reminiscences are not always reliable. Some ambiguity will always accompany our knowledge about this issue. Like the participants, we “see through a glass, darkly” and are asked to walk by faith.3

The Beginnings of Plural Marriage in the Church

The revelation on plural marriage was not written down until 1843, but its early verses suggest that part of it emerged from Joseph Smith’s study of the Old Testament in 1831. People who knew Joseph well later stated he received the revelation about that time.4 The revelation, recorded in Doctrine and Covenants 132, states that Joseph prayed to know why God justified Abraham, Isaac, Jacob, Moses, David, and Solomon in having many wives. The Lord responded that He had commanded them to enter into the practice.5
Latter-day Saints understood that they were living in the latter days, in what the revelations called the “dispensation of the fulness of times.”6 Ancient principles—such as prophets, priesthood, and temples—would be restored to the earth. Plural marriage was one of those ancient principles.
Polygamy had been permitted for millennia in many cultures and religions, but, with few exceptions, was rejected in Western cultures.7 In Joseph Smith’s time, monogamy was the only legal form of marriage in the United States. Joseph knew the practice of plural marriage would stir up public ire. After receiving the commandment, he taught a few associates about it, but he did not spread this teaching widely in the 1830s.8
When God commands a difficult task, He sometimes sends additional messengers to encourage His people to obey. Consistent with this pattern, Joseph told associates that an angel appeared to him three times between 1834 and 1842 and commanded him to proceed with plural marriage when he hesitated to move forward. During the third and final appearance, the angel came with a drawn sword, threatening Joseph with destruction unless he went forward and obeyed the commandment fully.9
Fragmentary evidence suggests that Joseph Smith acted on the angel’s first command by marrying a plural wife, Fanny Alger, in Kirtland, Ohio, in the mid-1830s. Several Latter-day Saints who had lived in Kirtland reported decades later that Joseph Smith had married Alger, who lived and worked in the Smith household, after he had obtained her consent and that of her parents.10 Little is known about this marriage, and nothing is known about the conversations between Joseph and Emma regarding Alger. After the marriage with Alger ended in separation, Joseph seems to have set the subject of plural marriage aside until after the Church moved to Nauvoo, Illinois.

Plural Marriage and Eternal Marriage

The same revelation that taught of plural marriage was part of a larger revelation given to Joseph Smith—that marriage could last beyond death and that eternal marriage was essential to inheriting the fulness that God desires for His children. As early as 1840, Joseph Smith privately taught Apostle Parley P. Pratt that the “heavenly order” allowed Pratt and his wife to be together “for time and all eternity.”11 Joseph also taught that men like Pratt—who had remarried following the death of his first wife—could be married (or sealed) to their wives for eternity, under the proper conditions.12
The sealing of husband and wife for eternity was made possible by the restoration of priesthood keys and ordinances. On April 3, 1836, the Old Testament prophet Elijah appeared to Joseph Smith and Oliver Cowdery in the Kirtland Temple and restored the priesthood keys necessary to perform ordinances for the living and the dead, including sealing families together.13 Marriages performed by priesthood authority could link loved ones to each other for eternity, on condition of righteousness; marriages performed without this authority would end at death.14
Marriage performed by priesthood authority meant that the procreation of children and perpetuation of families would continue into the eternities. Joseph Smith’s revelation on marriage declared that the “continuation of the seeds forever and ever” helped to fulfill God’s purposes for His children.15 This promise was given to all couples who were married by priesthood authority and were faithful to their covenants.

Plural Marriage in Nauvoo

For much of Western history, family “interest”—economic, political, and social considerations—dominated the choice of spouse. Parents had the power to arrange marriages or forestall unions of which they disapproved. By the late 1700s, romance and personal choice began to rival these traditional motives and practices.16 By Joseph Smith’s time, many couples insisted on marrying for love, as he and Emma did when they eloped against her parents’ wishes.
Latter-day Saints’ motives for plural marriage were often more religious than economic or romantic. Besides the desire to be obedient, a strong incentive was the hope of living in God’s presence with family members. In the revelation on marriage, the Lord promised participants “crowns of eternal lives” and “exaltation in the eternal worlds.”17 Men and women, parents and children, ancestors and progeny were to be “sealed” to each other—their commitment lasting into the eternities, consistent with Jesus’s promise that priesthood ordinances performed on earth could be “bound in heaven.”18
The first plural marriage in Nauvoo took place when Louisa Beaman and Joseph Smith were sealed in April 1841.19 Joseph married many additional wives and authorized other Latter-day Saints to practice plural marriage. The practice spread slowly at first. By June 1844, when Joseph died, approximately 29 men and 50 women had entered into plural marriage, in addition to Joseph and his wives. When the Saints entered the Salt Lake Valley in 1847, at least 196 men and 521 women had entered into plural marriages.20 Participants in these early plural marriages pledged to keep their involvement confidential, though they anticipated a time when the practice would be publicly acknowledged.
Nevertheless, rumors spread. A few men unscrupulously used these rumors to seduce women to join them in an unauthorized practice sometimes referred to as “spiritual wifery.” When this was discovered, the men were cut off from the Church.21 The rumors prompted members and leaders to issue carefully worded denials that denounced spiritual wifery and polygamy but were silent about what Joseph Smith and others saw as divinely mandated “celestial” plural marriage.22 The statements emphasized that the Church practiced no marital law other than monogamy while implicitly leaving open the possibility that individuals, under direction of God’s living prophet, might do so.23

Joseph Smith and Plural Marriage

During the era in which plural marriage was practiced, Latter-day Saints distinguished between sealings for time and eternity and sealings for eternity only. Sealings for time and eternity included commitments and relationships during this life, generally including the possibility of sexual relations. Eternity-only sealings indicated relationships in the next life alone.
Evidence indicates that Joseph Smith participated in both types of sealings. The exact number of women to whom he was sealed in his lifetime is unknown because the evidence is fragmentary.24 Some of the women who were sealed to Joseph Smith later testified that their marriages were for time and eternity, while others indicated that their relationships were for eternity alone.25
Most of those sealed to Joseph Smith were between 20 and 40 years of age at the time of their sealing to him. The oldest, Fanny Young, was 56 years old. The youngest was Helen Mar Kimball, daughter of Joseph’s close friends Heber C. and Vilate Murray Kimball, who was sealed to Joseph several months before her 15th birthday. Marriage at such an age, inappropriate by today’s standards, was legal in that era, and some women married in their mid-teens.26 Helen Mar Kimball spoke of her sealing to Joseph as being “for eternity alone,” suggesting that the relationship did not involve sexual relations.27 After Joseph’s death, Helen remarried and became an articulate defender of him and of plural marriage.28
Following his marriage to Louisa Beaman and before he married other single women, Joseph Smith was sealed to a number of women who were already married.29 Neither these women nor Joseph explained much about these sealings, though several women said they were for eternity alone.30 Other women left no records, making it unknown whether their sealings were for time and eternity or were for eternity alone.
There are several possible explanations for this practice. These sealings may have provided a way to create an eternal bond or link between Joseph’s family and other families within the Church.31 These ties extended both vertically, from parent to child, and horizontally, from one family to another. Today such eternal bonds are achieved through the temple marriages of individuals who are also sealed to their own birth families, in this way linking families together. Joseph Smith’s sealings to women already married may have been an early version of linking one family to another. In Nauvoo, most if not all of the first husbands seem to have continued living in the same household with their wives during Joseph’s lifetime, and complaints about these sealings with Joseph Smith are virtually absent from the documentary record.32
These sealings may also be explained by Joseph’s reluctance to enter plural marriage because of the sorrow it would bring to his wife Emma. He may have believed that sealings to married women would comply with the Lord’s command without requiring him to have normal marriage relationships.33 This could explain why, according to Lorenzo Snow, the angel reprimanded Joseph for having “demurred” on plural marriage even after he had entered into the practice.34 After this rebuke, according to this interpretation, Joseph returned primarily to sealings with single women.
Another possibility is that, in an era when life spans were shorter than they are today, faithful women felt an urgency to be sealed by priesthood authority. Several of these women were married either to non-Mormons or former Mormons, and more than one of the women later expressed unhappiness in their present marriages. Living in a time when divorce was difficult to obtain, these women may have believed a sealing to Joseph Smith would give them blessings they might not otherwise receive in the next life.35
The women who united with Joseph Smith in plural marriage risked reputation and self-respect in being associated with a principle so foreign to their culture and so easily misunderstood by others. “I made a greater sacrifice than to give my life,” said Zina Huntington Jacobs, “for I never anticipated again to be looked upon as an honorable woman.” Nevertheless, she wrote, “I searched the scripture & by humble prayer to my Heavenly Father I obtained a testimony for myself.”36 After Joseph’s death, most of the women sealed to him moved to Utah with the Saints, remained faithful Church members, and defended both plural marriage and Joseph.37

Joseph and Emma

Plural marriage was difficult for all involved. For Joseph Smith’s wife Emma, it was an excruciating ordeal. Records of Emma’s reactions to plural marriage are sparse; she left no firsthand accounts, making it impossible to reconstruct her thoughts. Joseph and Emma loved and respected each other deeply. After he had entered into plural marriage, he poured out his feelings in his journal for his “beloved Emma,” whom he described as “undaunted, firm and unwavering, unchangeable, affectionate Emma.” After Joseph’s death, Emma kept a lock of his hair in a locket she wore around her neck.38
Emma approved, at least for a time, of four of Joseph Smith’s plural marriages in Nauvoo, and she accepted all four of those wives into her household. She may have approved of other marriages as well.39 But Emma likely did not know about all of Joseph’s sealings.40 She vacillated in her view of plural marriage, at some points supporting it and at other times denouncing it.
In the summer of 1843, Joseph Smith dictated the revelation on marriage, a lengthy and complex text containing both glorious promises and stern warnings, some directed at Emma.41 The revelation instructed women and men that they must obey God’s law and commands in order to receive the fulness of His glory.
The revelation on marriage required that a wife give her consent before her husband could enter into plural marriage.42 Nevertheless, toward the end of the revelation, the Lord said that if the first wife “receive not this law”—the command to practice plural marriage—the husband would be “exempt from the law of Sarah,” presumably the requirement that the husband gain the consent of the first wife before marrying additional women.43 After Emma opposed plural marriage, Joseph was placed in an agonizing dilemma, forced to choose between the will of God and the will of his beloved Emma. He may have thought Emma’s rejection of plural marriage exempted him from the law of Sarah. Her decision to “receive not this law” permitted him to marry additional wives without her consent. Because of Joseph’s early death and Emma’s decision to remain in Nauvoo and not discuss plural marriage after the Church moved west, many aspects of their story remain known only to the two of them.

Trial and Spiritual Witness

Years later in Utah, participants in Nauvoo plural marriage discussed their motives for entering into the practice. God declared in the Book of Mormon that monogamy was the standard; at times, however, He commanded plural marriage so His people could “raise up seed unto [Him].”44 Plural marriage did result in an increased number of children born to believing parents.45
Some Saints also saw plural marriage as a redemptive process of sacrifice and spiritual refinement. According to Helen Mar Kimball, Joseph Smith stated that “the practice of this principle would be the hardest trial the Saints would ever have to test their faith.” Though it was one of the “severest” trials of her life, she testified that it had also been “one of the greatest blessings.”46 Her father, Heber C. Kimball, agreed. “I never felt more sorrowful,” he said of the moment he learned of plural marriage in 1841. “I wept days. … I had a good wife. I was satisfied.”47
The decision to accept such a wrenching trial usually came only after earnest prayer and intense soul-searching. Brigham Young said that, upon learning of plural marriage, “it was the first time in my life that I had desired the grave.”48 “I had to pray unceasingly,” he said, “and I had to exercise faith and the Lord revealed to me the truth of it and that satisfied me.”49 Heber C. Kimball found comfort only after his wife Vilate had a visionary experience attesting to the rightness of plural marriage. “She told me,” Vilate’s daughter later recalled, “she never saw so happy a man as father was when she described the vision and told him she was satisfied and knew it was from God.”50
Lucy Walker recalled her inner turmoil when Joseph Smith invited her to become his wife. “Every feeling of my soul revolted against it,” she wrote. Yet, after several restless nights on her knees in prayer, she found relief as her room “filled with a holy influence” akin to “brilliant sunshine.” She said, “My soul was filled with a calm sweet peace that I never knew,” and “supreme happiness took possession of my whole being.”51
Not all had such experiences. Some Latter-day Saints rejected the principle of plural marriage and left the Church, while others declined to enter the practice but remained faithful.52 Nevertheless, for many women and men, initial revulsion and anguish was followed by struggle, resolution, and ultimately, light and peace. Sacred experiences enabled the Saints to move forward in faith.53

Conclusion

The challenge of introducing a principle as controversial as plural marriage is almost impossible to overstate. A spiritual witness of its truthfulness allowed Joseph Smith and other Latter-day Saints to accept this principle. Difficult as it was, the introduction of plural marriage in Nauvoo did indeed “raise up seed” unto God. A substantial number of today’s members descend through faithful Latter-day Saints who practiced plural marriage.
Church members no longer practice plural marriage.54 Consistent with Joseph Smith’s teachings, the Church permits a man whose wife has died to be sealed to another woman when he remarries. Moreover, members are permitted to perform ordinances on behalf of deceased men and women who married more than once on earth, sealing them to all of the spouses to whom they were legally married. The precise nature of these relationships in the next life is not known, and many family relationships will be sorted out in the life to come. Latter-day Saints are encouraged to trust in our wise Heavenly Father, who loves His children and does all things for their growth and salvation.55

Resources
  1. See “The Family: A Proclamation to the World”; Jacob 2:27, 30.
  2. Doctrine and Covenants 132:34–39; Jacob 2:30; see also Genesis 16.
  3. 1 Corinthians 13:12; Jeffrey R. Holland, “Lord, I Believe,” Ensign, May 2013.
  4. See Andrew Jenson, “Plural Marriage,” Historical Record 6 (May 1887): 232–33; “Report of Elders Orson Pratt and Joseph F. Smith,” Millennial Star 40 (Dec. 16, 1878): 788; Danel W. Bachman, “New Light on an Old Hypothesis: The Ohio Origins of the Revelation on Eternal Marriage,” Journal of Mormon History 5 (1978): 19–32.
  5. See Doctrine and Covenants 132:1, 34–38.
  6. Doctrine and Covenants 112:30; 124:41; 128:18.
  7. “Polygamy,” in The Oxford Dictionary of World Religions, ed. John Bowker (New York: Oxford University Press, 1997), 757; John Cairncross, After Polygamy Was Made a Sin: The Social History of Christian Polygamy (London: Routledge & Kegan Paul, 1974).
  8. Lorenzo Snow, deposition, United States Testimony 1892 (Temple Lot Case), part 3, p. 124, Church History Library, Salt Lake City; Orson Pratt, in Journal of Discourses, 13:193; Ezra Booth to Ira Eddy, Dec. 6, 1831, in Ohio Star, Dec. 8, 1831.
  9. See Brian C. Hales, “Encouraging Joseph Smith to Practice Plural Marriage: The Accounts of the Angel with a Drawn Sword,” Mormon Historical Studies 11, no. 2 (Fall 2010): 69–70.
  10. See Andrew Jenson, Research Notes, Andrew Jenson Collection, Church History Library, Salt Lake City; Benjamin F. Johnson to Gibbs, 1903, Benjamin F. Johnson Papers, Church History Library, Salt Lake City; “Autobiography of Levi Ward Hancock,” Church History Library, Salt Lake City.
  11. Parley P. Pratt, The Autobiography of Parley Parker Pratt, One of the Twelve Apostles of The Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints, ed. Parley P. Pratt Jr. (New York: Russell Brothers, 1874), 329.
  12. Hyrum Smith, sermon, Apr. 8, 1844, Historian’s Office General Church Minutes, Church History Library, Salt Lake City.
  13. These were the same priesthood keys Elijah had given to Apostles anciently. (See Matthew 16:19; 17:1–9; Doctrine and Covenants 2.)
  14. Doctrine and Covenants 132:7; 131:2–3.
  15. Doctrine and Covenants 132:19–20, 63; see also “Becoming Like God.”
  16. Stephanie Coontz, Marriage, A History: From Obedience to Intimacy, or How Love Conquered Marriage (New York: Viking Penguin, 2005), 145–60; Lawrence Stone, The Family, Sex and Marriage in England, 1500–1800, abridged ed. (Middlesex, UK: Penguin Books, 1985), 217–53.
  17. Doctrine and Covenants 132:55, 63.
  18. Doctrine and Covenants 132:46; Matthew 16:19.
  19. Joseph Smith’s practice of plural marriage has been discussed by Latter-day Saint authors in official, semi-official, and independent publications. See, for example, Jenson, “Plural Marriage,” 219–34; B. H. Roberts, A Comprehensive History of The Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints, 6 vols. (Salt Lake City: Deseret News Press, 1930), 2:93–110, Danel W. Bachman and Ronald K. Esplin, “Plural Marriage,” in Encyclopedia of Mormonism, 4 vols. (New York: Macmillan, 1992), 2:1091-95; and Glen M. Leonard, Nauvoo: A Place of Peace, a People of Promise (Salt Lake City and Provo, UT: Deseret Book and Brigham Young University, 2002), 343–49.
  20. Brian C. Hales, Joseph Smith’s Polygamy, 3 vols. (Salt Lake City: Greg Kofford Books, 2013), 1:3, 2:165.
  21. Joseph Smith, Journal, May 19, 24, and 26, 1842; June 4, 1842, available at josephsmithpapers.org. Proponents of “spiritual wifery” taught that sexual relations were permissible outside of legalized marital relationships, on condition that the relations remained secret.
  22. In the denials, “polygamy” was understood to mean the marriage of one man to more than one woman but without Church sanction.
  23. See, for example, “On Marriage,” Times and Seasons, Oct. 1, 1842, 939–40; and Wilford Woodruff journal, Nov. 25, 1843, Church History Library, Salt Lake City; Parley P. Pratt, “This Number Closes the First Volume of the ‘Prophet,’” The Prophet, May 24, 1845, 2. George A. Smith explained, “Any one who will read carefully the denials, as they are termed, of plurality of wives in connection with the circumstances will see clearly that they denounce adultery, fornication, brutal lust and the teaching of plurality of wives by those who were not commanded to do so” (George A. Smith letter to Joseph Smith III, Oct. 9, 1869, in Journal History of The Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints, Oct. 9, 1869, Church History Library, Salt Lake City).
  24. Careful estimates put the number between 30 and 40. See Hales, Joseph Smith’s Polygamy, 2:272–73.
  25. See Hales, Joseph Smith’s Polygamy, 2:277–302. Despite claims that Joseph Smith fathered children within plural marriage, genetic testing has so far been negative, though it is possible he fathered two or three children with plural wives. (See Ugo A. Perego, “Joseph Smith, the Question of Polygamous Offspring, and DNA Analysis,” in Newell G. Bringhurst and Craig L. Foster, eds., The Persistence of Polygamy: Joseph Smith and the Origins of Mormon Polygamy [Independence, MO: John Whitmer Books, 2010], 233–56.)
  26. J. Spencer Fluhman, “A Subject that Can Bear Investigation’: Anguish, Faith, and Joseph Smith’s Youngest Plural Wife,” in Robert L. Millet, ed., No Weapon Shall Prosper: New Light on Sensitive Issues (Provo and Salt Lake City: Brigham Young University Religious Studies Center and Deseret Book, 2011), 104–19; Craig L. Foster, David Keller, and Gregory L. Smith, “The Age of Joseph Smith’s Plural Wives in Social and Demographic Context,” in Bringhurst and Foster, eds., The Persistence of Polygamy, 152–83.
  27. Helen Mar Kimball Whitney, Autobiography, [2], Church History Library, Salt Lake City.
  28. Helen Mar Kimball Whitney, Plural Marriage as Taught by the Prophet Joseph: A Reply to Joseph Smith, Editor of the Lamoni (Iowa) “Herald” (Salt Lake City: Juvenile Instructor Office, 1882); Helen Mar Kimball Whitney, Why We Practice Plural Marriage (Salt Lake City: Juvenile Instructor Office, 1884).
  29. Estimates of the number of these sealings range from 12 to 14. (See Todd Compton, In Sacred Loneliness: The Plural Wives of Joseph Smith [Salt Lake City: Signature Books, 1997], 4, 6; Hales, Joseph Smith’s Polygamy, 1:253–76, 303–48.) For an early summary of this practice, see John A. Widtsoe, “Evidences and Reconciliations: Did Joseph Smith Introduce Plural Marriage?” Improvement Era 49, no. 11 (Nov. 1946): 766–67.
  30. Hales, Joseph Smith’s Polygamy, 1:421–37. Polyandry, the marriage of one woman to more than one man, typically involves shared financial, residential, and sexual resources, and children are often raised communally. There is no evidence that Joseph Smith’s sealings functioned in this way, and much evidence works against that view.
  31. Rex Eugene Cooper, Promises Made to the Fathers: Mormon Covenant Organization (Salt Lake City: University of Utah Press, 1990), 138–45; Jonathan A. Stapley, “Adoptive Sealing Ritual in Mormonism,” Journal of Mormon History 37, no. 3 (Summer 2011): 53–117.
  32. For a review of the evidence, see Hales, Joseph Smith’s Polygamy, 1:390–96.
  33. Richard Lyman Bushman, Joseph Smith: Rough Stone Rolling (New York: Knopf, 2005), 440.
  34. See Lorenzo Snow, deposition, United States Testimony 1892 (Temple Lot Case), part 3, p. 124.
  35. The revelation on marriage provided powerful incentives for a marriage performed by priesthood authority. (See Doctrine and Covenants 132:17–19, 63.)
  36. Zina Huntington Jacobs, autobiographical sketch, Zina Card Brown Family Collection, Church History Library, Salt Lake City; spelling modernized.
  37. The historical record is striking for the lack of criticism found among those who had once been Joseph Smith’s plural wives, although most of the wives left no written record.
  38. Joseph Smith, Journal, Aug. 16, 1842, in Andrew H. Hedges, Alex D. Smith, and Richard Lloyd Anderson, eds., Journals, Volume 2: December 1841–April 1843, vol. 2 of the Journals series of The Joseph Smith Papers, edited by Dean C. Jessee, Ronald K. Esplin, and Richard Lyman Bushman (Salt Lake City: Church Historian’s Press, 2011), 93–96, available at josephsmithpapers.org; Mary Audentia Smith Anderson, ed., Joseph Smith III and the Restoration (Independence, MO: Herald House, 1952), 85.
  39. Jenson, “Historical Record,” 229–30, 240; Emily Dow Partridge Young, deposition, United States Testimony 1892 (Temple Lot Case), part 3, pp. 365–66, 384; Orson Pratt, in Journal of Discourses, 13:194.
  40. Hales, Joseph Smith’s Polygamy, 2:8, 48–50, 80; Bushman, Rough Stone Rolling, 473.
  41. Doctrine and Covenants 132:54, 64. The warning to Emma Smith also applies to all who receive sacred ordinances by authority of the priesthood but do not abide the covenants associated with those ordinances. See, for example, Psalm 37:38; Isaiah 1:28; Acts 3:19–25; and Doctrine and Covenants 132:26, 64.
  42. Doctrine and Covenants 132:61. In Utah, the first wife was part of the plural marriage ceremony, standing between her husband and the bride and placing the hand of the bride in the hand of the husband. “Celestial Marriage,” The Seer 1 (Feb. 1853): 31.
  43. Doctrine and Covenants 132:65; see also Genesis 16:1–3.
  44. Jacob 2:30.
  45. On the question of children, see note 6 of “Plural Marriage and Families in Early Utah.”
  46. Helen Mar Kimball Whitney, Why We Practice Plural Marriage, 23–24.
  47. Heber C. Kimball, Discourse, Sept. 2, 1866, George D. Watt Papers, Church History Library, Salt Lake City, transcribed from Pitman shorthand by LaJean Purcell Carruth.
  48. Brigham Young, in Journal of Discourses, 3:266.
  49. Brigham Young, Discourse, June 18, 1865, George D. Watt Papers, Church History Library, Salt Lake City, transcribed from Pitman shorthand by LaJean Purcell Carruth; see also Brigham Young, in Journal of Discourses, 11:128.
  50. Orson F. Whitney, Life of Heber C. Kimball, an Apostle: The Father and Founder of the British Mission (Salt Lake City: Kimball Family, 1888), 338; see also Kiersten Olson, “‘The Embodiment of Strength and Endurance’: Vilate Murray Kimball (1806–1867),” in Women of Faith in the Latter Days, Volume One, 1775–1820, ed. Richard E. Turley Jr. and Brittany A. Chapman (Salt Lake City: Deseret Book, 2011), 137.
  51. Lucy Walker Kimball, “Brief Biographical Sketch,” 10–11, Church History Library, Salt Lake City.
  52. Sarah Granger Kimball, for example, rejected plural marriage in Nauvoo but came west with the Saints. Many of the individuals who rejected plural marriage, including Emma Smith, later became members of the Reorganized Church of Jesus Christ of Latter Day Saints.
  53. For example, see “Evidence from Zina D. Huntington-Young,” Saints’ Herald, Jan. 11, 1905, 29; Mary Elizabeth Rollins Lightner, “Mary Elizabeth Rollins,” Susa Young Gates Papers, Utah State Historical Society.
  54. Gordon B. Hinckley, “What Are People Asking about Us?Ensign, Nov. 1998; “Polygamy,” Newsroom, topics page.
  55. Alma 26:35; Doctrine and Covenants 88:41; 1 Nephi 11:17.
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